Posts in NICU
Episode 38: Gretchen's C-section at 23 weeks CGA.

Birth stories are important. Hearing real birth stories is an important step in feeling prepared for your own birth, and equally important, healing from a delivery that didn’t go as planned. While every birth is unique and different, there are commonalities that births share - and through listening to stories, you can feel empowered and connected with other mothers.

Here at Mighty Littles, we want to share birth stories of mom’s whose infants have gone to the NICU, normalizing this experience, and sharing stories that help you with your healing. Birth has so many unknowns, and we can never prepare fully for what might occur. On this episode, Gretchen relays her birth story, discussing what happened when she went into labor at 22 weeks, away from home, away from family while on a training trip for her job with the coast guard.

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Episode 31: Apnea of Prematurity

Join Dr. Anna Zimmermann and Dr. Joanna Parga-Belinkie for an honest discussion about apnea of prematurity and the “brady countdown” at the end of the NICU stay that can feel like torture. We discuss definitions, physiology and give practical examples of what may (or may not) qualify as a bradycardia significant enough to warrant an additional 5-7 day stay in the NICU.

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Episode 28: Why me? Triplets born at 24 weeks.

Being pregnant with triplets is by definition a high-risk pregnancy from the onset. There is no blissful enjoyment of finding out you are pregnant. You immediately get referred to high-risk perinatologist, have weekly ultrasounds and numerous appointments, and immediately start having conversations with your doctors that you never want to have. Parents navigating the decisions that come with higher-order multiple pregnancies (anything more than twins) are faced with impossible decisions from the moment they find out they are pregnant. Impossible decisions. Decisions with no right or wrong answers and every decision simply brings on another question.

Here are the themes we talk about in this episode.

  1. There are no right answers, only answers that feel best for your family.

  2. During your NICU stay, you can and will do hard things. You may not love it or like it, but you CAN and you WILL do the hard thing that is required of you.

  3. While navigating the NICU, there is practically no time to process what is happening. Everything comes so fast, and you are simply focused on the next milestone. And then, finally, there it is — the magical milestone where you get to take your baby(ies) home — NICU Discharge. There is a common belief that if you just can get your baby home, the NICU will be behind you. But in reality, the processing happens after your NICU stay is complete. There is still work to be done so you can process your NICU journey. Additionally, for many babies, medical issues don’t just stay in the NICU. They follow you home.

  4. The gift of therapy.

  5. Do not be afraid to ask for help. And take the help.

  6. Bridging the gap between NICU discharge and initiating intensive therapies.

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Episode 19: Kas_Kares: 22 weeks and 440g at birth.

Marquita had an uncomplicated pregnancy up until she went into preterm labor at 22-weeks. Kas was born weighing 440g. Being born at the edge of viability, she was given the option to “go with it or not” - you don't have time to think about it - you just have to make a decision. Marquita and her family decided to see what Kas would do. He had his misbehaving moments, but it was clear to the family that he was fighting, so they kept fighting for him.

How do you survive an 8 month NICU stay with your baby:

  1. Nurses - they are a combination of your best friend, your favorite teacher, and your therapist.

  2. Reading - Read, read read.

  3. Connecting with your baby when you visit can keep you going and fighting for another day.

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